There's a phrase that goes something like:

"take advice from those that seldom give them, rather than those that cannot stop giving it."

guy never heard of a shrink....

In any case I heard my self say this today and I was thinkin:

"....most people don't realise that when you worship a human being, adore, idolise them, befriend them in admiration of a wonderful person; looking up to them, you give them opportunity to look down on you..."

I've realised now, after saying it, why I've lost some of my dearest friends. Because I've helped them feed thier own ego. And it grows to suffocate our friendship.

So to those of you who felt I've never been significant enough to be a close friend because all this time I've been looking up to you, then don't say those words that makes me feel important in your presence, when I don't see my existence in yours.....

"only in times of hardship will you find your true friends/b, you know we'll go through it till the very end." - suf :)

suf rambled at 4/28/2005 09:25:00 pm